| As a woman i was always attracted to intellectually | | | | multimillionaire sometime in the future. |
| smart men. You tell me about science, politics and | | | | My radical departure from dating lovely and intelligent |
| discuss any intelligent subject and i couldn't hide my | | | | men is a shock to my system. I recently had an affair |
| admiration. It was what attracted me to this stern | | | | with a bright man who had great insight in world politics, |
| looking, smart non-romantic men. I am no friend to | | | | excelled in all he laid his hands on but he was not |
| stupidity or ignorance and so anybody who taught me | | | | romantic in any way. He could hardly read emotions. |
| something new every moment had all my attention. It | | | | He was the type that pulls away when a lady shows |
| was not only my attention they got but something | | | | interest. Most intellectuals are somehow unfit to date |
| more than liking. I am honest so i will tell you i loved | | | | since they have very little capability to discuss |
| them. It was not a conscious decision as you might | | | | emotions. Intellect and compassion are always parallel |
| think. It was a kind of gravitation pull this smart guys | | | | as i gathered from his comments when i questioned |
| had for me. In my dating life i have rubbed shoulders | | | | his behavior. They are arrogant and i do not need that |
| with graduates, master holders and people who had a | | | | in my relationship. Smart non-romantic men might be |
| couple of titles attached to their names. | | | | attractive but think twice before you are enslaved in |
| Now i have made up my mind that i am giving up | | | | insensitivity. |
| smart non-romantic men. I have analyzed the dating | | | | Relationships are built out of emotions. If only one |
| scene and unless you want to lock yourself from the | | | | person is emotional, the relationship ends up being a |
| fun and exciting world, you are not going places with | | | | one way traffic. In relationships with smart |
| this brainy fellows. I want to follow my intuition and | | | | non-romantic men, you are putting your heart at risk. It |
| date with my heart but not with my head as i have | | | | is your heart that is involved. The occasional brain |
| always done. When you use your head, the man's | | | | check is a rare thing as we all know that love is a |
| appeal is more in his resume than his character as a | | | | confusing feeling that cannot be described and so i |
| person. I didn't sit to think about how compatible we | | | | won't try. I concentrated on looks but now i realize that |
| were provided the education system proved the guy | | | | they should be at the the bottom of my checklist. In |
| had something above between his ears. The | | | | our society today, we have been made to believe that |
| information my subject of desire offered added so | | | | brilliance is a sure way to success. You can have a |
| much to the love equation. It didn't matter to me | | | | good job, a good public image but you are socially |
| whether he had money. Doesn't brains and time | | | | lousy. The not-so-intelligent guy is very sensitive, |
| translate to money anyway? Whatever, provided he | | | | romantic and a good life partner. |
| showed some potential of turning into be a | | | | |